Improve your life. Do not limit yourself by believing the lies around us.  “Look out for Number One” The worst relationship advice for non-abusive relationships. The worst. If you “look out for number one”, you automatically negate empathy/generosity/other-centeredness/g…Read More

  2. Improve Relationship Communication

    Improve relationship, and communication; refuse to accept Limiting Beliefs. Think for yourself and DO NOT accept everything others say... "Every couple fights"....You look up the definition of "fight" and tell me if that dynamic belongs in a romantic relationship? NO, it does not…Read More

  3. Meaningful Communication

    Meaningful Communication; Do we each make it safe for the other to share thoughts & feelings? Do we each listen without interrupting? Which of us is aware of feelings quickly, who needs time to process first? Do either of us sweep issues “under the rug” instead of working…Read More

  4. Boundaries and Your Significant Other

    BOUNDARIES Boundaries, Your Significant Other; Couples, ask yourselves these questions; Can each of us set boundaries with each other? (being clear about what we will/will not say or do) Do each of us respect/support the boundaries of the other, even when they differ from ours? A…Read More

  5. Couple’s Counseling

    Relationship-focused counseling & Couple's Counseling achieve both the strengthening of healthy relationships and/or specific help to grow through difficulties and challenges. When couples spot potential problem areas and are willing to work proactively and effectively, the r…Read More

  6. Self Absorbed People

    Regarding self absorbed people; These May be Red Flags that someone is a self-absorbed person, a Narcissist: * blame you for his/her errors * Micromanage/over-control you * Devalue your work or ideas * Constantly criticize you * Blame you when he/she is uncomfortable * Make you r…Read More

  7. Evaluate the man…

    Evaluate the man; What is the difference between; A man who flatters you, a man who compliments you. A man who spends money on you, and a man who invests in you. A man who lusts after you, and a man who loves you. A man who believes he is a gift to women, and a man who believes y…Read More

  8. Decrease Relationship Problems

    Decrease relationship problems; Relationship problems occur when we have the wrong attitudes. Learn healthy relationship skills to improve relationships; ·     Admit that you have weaknesses, seek to strengthen them. Resist focusing on what you think your partner needs to c…Read More

  9. Stop Fighting

    Stop fighting; Disagree, but work through the problems with respect, be friendly. Settle the issue, then let it go. Embrace & accept each others differences. Identify the healthiest way possible to handle the conflict. Do not take it personally that you have different views. …Read More

  10. Giving and receiving

    Giving and receiving; The Dignity to Give and Receive "Nobody is so poor that he/she has nothing to give, and nobody is so rich that he/she has nothing to receive."  These words by Pope John-Paul II, offer a powerful direction for all who want to work for peace.  No peace is th…Read More

  11. Successful Relationships

    Live the Love they promise Sincerely apologize and forgive Know the power of Empathy; walk in each others shoes Take responsibility for both the good and the bad Believe in one another, and that good wins over bad People who have successful relationships seek to fulfill their pro…Read More

  12. MY RELATION TIPS; Forgiveness

    Considering Forgiveness; One of the roots of unwanted behavior is buried pain. Pretending that it is not there or that it does not matter will not solve problems. Failing to forgive is one main cause of buried pain and significant relationship problems. Forgiving is not easy, it …Read More