Improve your life. Do not limit yourself by believing the lies around us. “Look out for Number One” The worst relationship advice for non-abusive relationships. The worst.
If you “look out for number one”, you automatically negate empathy/generosity/other-centeredness/giving/affection/reciprocity, etc.
The influence of our society can be detrimental to healthy relationships. If you want great communication, exceptional relationship and ongoing personal growth-Question the automatic way of thinking & cliches that we hear everyday.
To the contrary, if you “look out for those you care for” the natural law of reciprocity will bring you more love and care from those around you. As you are fulfilled and happy, you will reach out and return these things.
Be idealistic; create strong values for great communication, exceptional relationship and ongoing personal growth.
Disclaimer; Abusive-relationships this IS NOT FOR YOU. Improve your life.
“As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you are – what others say is irrelevant.” Nic Sheff
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