1. Overreacting? Too Emotional?

    Are you overreacting? Too emotional? Relationship problems happen to all people. When the scenario involves being told you are too emotional, or over-reacting-there may be something else causing the relationship trouble or marital problems. I want to teach you about implicit and…Read More

  2. Self Absorbed People

    Self Absorbed People; Red Flags that a Narcissist May be Exploiting You: //revelationcounseling.com/self-absorbed-people/ * He/she makes you emotionally dependent on them * Narcissist uses emotional blackmail * Lies * Expects favors from you but does not return them * Exaggerate…Read More

  3. Self Absorbed People

    Regarding self absorbed people; These May be Red Flags that someone is a self-absorbed person, a Narcissist: * blame you for his/her errors * Micromanage/over-control you * Devalue your work or ideas * Constantly criticize you * Blame you when he/she is uncomfortable * Make you …Read More

  4. Assert yourself respectfully, and you will not stockpile Anger!

    ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION & ANGER Anger is a natural emotion, but often times, people don't express anger and allow it to be stockpiled. Anger has a way of expressing itself on its own. Letting anger express itself like this is unhealthy and can have negative consequences. This…Read More

  5. RELATIONSHIP TIPS

    Anger is one of the most often misunderstood, yet significant concepts in life. Best understood as a response providing energy to protect; to respond to a real or perceived wrong doing or injustice in life, anger motivates a person to action. Self-awareness— Identifying the cau…Read More

  6. RELATIONSHIP TIPS

    The most difficult stressor for most of us is other people. We often blame other people for our feelings, thoughts and choices we feel forced to make. Actually, other people are not responsible for any of these things. The truth is that each of us is responsible for 5 things; Wha…Read More

  7. RELATIONSHIP TIPS

    Is It Possible to NOT FIGHT? In our culture, people often say “All couples fight, everybody fights.” Do you think it is true? Is it possible that we are socialized to think that way? What is your definition of the word “fight?” The Free Dictionary online says the definit…Read More

  8. Couples Fighting

    Is It Possible to NOT FIGHT? Consider the topic of couples fighting; In our culture, people often say “All couples fight, everybody fights.” Do you think it is true?  I believe this is a limiting belief that robs people of happiness, because we accept the dysfunctional inst…Read More

  9. RELATIONSHIP TIPS

    IS ANGER GOOD OR BAD Anger is a Reality It is one of countless human emotions; it is a spontaneous and natural experience. Anger can be defined as emotional excitement induced by intense displeasure. Anger prepares us emotionally and physically to take action. Individuals who hav…Read More

  10. RELATIONSHIP TIPS Anger

    IS ANGER GOOD OR BAD Anger is a Reality Relationship Tips Anger; It is one of countless human emotions; it is a spontaneous and natural experience. Anger can be defined as emotional excitement induced by intense displeasure. Anger prepares us emotionally and physically to take a…Read More

  11. IMPROVE COMMUNICATION

    Constructive feedback. Our personal filters, assumptions & judgments of what is being said distort the message. Our role is to understand what is being said. This may require reflecting the other's statements, asking questions. Reflect what has been said by paraphrasing. “W…Read More

  12. IMPROVE COMMUNICATION, Constructive Feedback

    Constructive feedback. Our personal filters, assumptions & judgments of what is being said distort the message. Our role is to understand what is being said. This may require reflecting the other's statements, asking questions. Reflect what has been said by paraphrasing. “…Read More